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Putting it into Perspective

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Life is tough, but so am I….

The last few months I have had a few hard balls thrown in my direction and to be honest I was to the point that I was not sure how much more I could take.  My mom’s health had taken a turn for the worse and I was having to make hard decisions I had never anticipated.  The cold snap that left Oklahoma below zero for several weeks had affected my work, we had just received more bad news on my daughter’s rodeo horse and the list could go on and on.

Being a natural control freak and what I call a fixer of problems I was at my wits end. I simply had no control of the issues I was facing or a solution for a quick fix.  My neighbor Helen, one of my best friends, counselor and confidant all rolled into one awesome human being, had called me that day to invite me to lunch.  As we ate lunch and chatted about all the chaos in my life, my phone rang.  It was my youngest daughter.  When I answered the phone, she was in tears.  She had just learned that one of her rodeo friends, a freshman in college had been involved in a horrible accident and he along with another friend had lost their lives on the way to a college rodeo.

As I tried to console her my problems no longer seemed significant in the grand scheme of the world.  The problems or as I like to call them, speed bumps of life, I was facing at that moment seemed so small and shallow compared to the heartache the families and friends of those two young men.  Within the blink of an eye these families and friends had their entire world turned upside down.  My heart broke for the families and especially the mothers of those two young men.  

As humans it is so easy to see only what is happening in “our” world.  To feel as if our struggles are bigger and worse than anyone else’s.  But when a true tragedy happens it tends to open our eyes and change the perspective of what is really and truly important.   I listened to a pod cast recently and it talked about how we have a choice to see the world through two types of lenses.

The first lens was called the lens of fear.  The lens of fear is tunnel vision.  The lens of fear only allows us to see obstacles and negativity.  The second lens was the lens of faith.  The lens of faith is a wide-angle lens.  With the faith lens we don’t see obstacles we see opportunities and instead of problems we see what’s possible.  Every day we wake up we have a choice to choose which lens we will look through that day. 

I have always told my daughters that when it is hardest to pray and praise that is when we need to do it the most.  I will be the first to admit, I had not been living by those words.  I had been making the choice for the last few weeks to see only with the lens of fear.  I was afraid of what lay ahead, the choices I had to make, the sales I had missed during the cold spell, the fear of my daughter’s horse never being able to compete again, etc., etc., The reality of it all was tough to admit.  I had chosen to live in fear instead of relying on my faith and praying and praising. 

I know as humans it is so easy to feel overwhelmed with our problems.  We often only see the rain instead of the rainbow.  I would be lying if I said I will never look through the lens of negativity again, because I will.  I simply pray that more often than not, I will choose the wide angled lens of faith over of the lens of fear and tunnel vision.

I hope each of you will take time to see the sunset and remember there is always a positive to every negative and when life gets tough, you are tougher….

Until Next Time….

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Creamy Italian Ditalini Soup

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By Lacey Vilhauer | Lacey’s Pantry

Total Time: 45 minutes

Servings: 6

Ingredients:

1 lb. Italian sausage

1 Tbsp olive oil

1 small onion, diced

3 garlic cloves, minced

2 medium carrots, chopped

2 celery stalks, chopped

4 cups chicken broth

1 cup Ditalini pasta

½ tsp dried oregano

½ tsp dried basil

½ cup heavy cream

½ cup parmesan cheese, grated

2 cups fresh spinach, chopped

salt and pepper

Instructions:

In a large pot or Dutch oven, heat oil over medium heat and cooked sausage until brown. Remove sausage from pan and set aside. Add onion, garlic, carrots and chopped celery. Saute until softened—about 5-10 minutes. Pour chicken broth and spices over cooked vegetables and bring to a boil. Add Ditalini pasta and cook for about 8 minutes or until tender, but firm.

Lower the heat to medium and add sausage, cream and parmesan to soup mixture. Simmer for 5 minutes, allowing soup to thicken slightly. Stir in fresh spinach and let it wilt. Season with salt and pepper and serve immediately. 

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From Garden Novice to Pickle Pro

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Dealing with a Very Abundant Harvest

When I first decided to start a small garden, it was more of a whimsical experiment than a serious endeavor. I had seen countless posts on social media of people proudly showing off their homegrown vegetables, and I thought, “Why not give it a try?” Armed with enthusiasm and a bit of research, I planted a variety of vegetables, including a few pickling cucumber plants. Little did I know that these cucumbers would thrive beyond my wildest expectations.

As the weeks passed, my garden became a green haven. Every morning, I would step outside with a cup of coffee, marveling at the progress of my plants. The cucumbers, in particular, seemed to have taken on a life of their own. Before I knew it, I was harvesting cucumbers by the basketful. While it was thrilling to see the fruits of my labor, I quickly realized that I needed a plan for this overabundance.

My first thought, naturally, was to make pickles. I had always loved the tangy crunch of a good dill pickle, and now I had the perfect opportunity to create my own. I started with classic dill pickles, using a simple brine of vinegar, water, salt, and fresh dill. The process was surprisingly straightforward, and the result was jars of delicious pickles that I could enjoy for months to come.

But why stop at dill pickles? I soon found myself experimenting with different flavors. Bread and butter pickles, with their sweet and tangy profile, became a household favorite. For a bit of a kick, I added chili flakes to some batches, creating spicy pickles that were perfect for snacking.

Expanding My Culinary Horizons

With so many cucumbers at my disposal, I began exploring other culinary possibilities. I discovered that chopped cucumbers make an excellent base for a pickled relish, which is fantastic on hot dogs and burgers. Another hit was pickled cucumbers and onions—a delightful combination that added a burst of flavor to sandwiches and salads.

Not all my cucumber creations were pickled. I fell in love with cucumber salad, a refreshing dish that quickly became a staple in our summer meals. A simple mix of cucumbers, vinegar, sugar, and dill made for a light and tasty side dish. I also experimented with an Asian-inspired version, using rice vinegar, sesame oil, and soy sauce for a tangy twist.

In my quest to use up every last cucumber, I ventured into making cucumber agua fresca. This refreshing drink, blended with water, lime juice, and a touch of sugar, was a hit with my family and friends. It was the perfect way to stay hydrated on hot summer days.

Sharing the Bounty

With so many cucumber creations, I found joy in sharing my bounty with friends and family. I prepared decorative jars of pickles as gifts. It was heartwarming to see how my small garden project had blossomed into something that could bring happiness to others.

Interestingly, my cucumbers found uses beyond the kitchen as well. I discovered that cucumbers make excellent ingredients for homemade face masks. Their cooling properties were soothing and refreshing, adding a touch of spa luxury to my skincare routine.

Starting my garden was one of the best decisions I ever made. What began as a social media-inspired experiment turned into a journey of growth, both in my garden and in my culinary skills. The abundance of cucumbers challenged me to be creative and resourceful, resulting in a variety of delicious and useful products.

For anyone considering starting a garden, I say go for it. The rewards are plentiful, and you never know—you might just find yourself with an overabundance of something wonderful, just like I did. And when that happens, embrace it. Experiment, share, and most importantly, enjoy every moment of your gardening adventure.

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Parmesan Crusted Zucchini Fries

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By Lacey Vilhauer | Lacey’s Pantry

Servings: 4-6

Total time: 30-40 minutes

Ingredients:

6-8 large to medium sized zucchini

1 cup of panko bread crumbs

1 cup of parmesan cheese, grated

1 tsp kosher salt

½ tsp black pepper

2 tsp dry parsley

1 tsp dry oregano

1 tsp dry basil

½ tsp garlic powder

¼ cup mayonnaise

2 Tbsp olive oil

Cooking spray

Instructions:

Preheat oven or air fryer to 375 degrees Fahrenheit.

If using an oven, move the oven rack to the top of the oven for browning purposes. Line a sheet tray with foil and place a cooking rack on top to allow the moisture from the zucchini to drain off while cooking. Spray the rack with cooking spray.

Trim the ends of the zucchini and cut each squash in half lengthwise, and slice each length into french-fry sized wedges. Cut all of the fries in and set aside.

In a large bowl, mix panko, parmesan and spices together. Mix mayonnaise and olive oil in a separate bowl. Lay out the zucchini pieces on a sheet pan or cutting board and use a pastry brush to coat the pieces with the mayonnaise mixtures.

Next, pick up each zucchini piece and hold them over the panko mixture bowl; use your other hand to sprinkle the breading mixture over the zucchini piece, allowing the breading to stick to the mayonnaise coating. Set each zucchini fry on the cooking tray, or in your air fryer, cut side up. When all the zucchini is breaded, place in oven or air fryer and bake for 15 minutes, then rotate the pan and bake another 15 minutes until browned. If using an air fryer, cook for 15 minutes and check for doneness. You may needed work in batches to cook all the fries in a single layer they do not stick to each other. Remove from oven or air fryer and serve with ranch dressing.

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